I am very type A.
I know I’ve mentioned it over and over again but that’s because it’s true.
Have you ever seen that episode of friends where everyone gives Monica a hard time about leaving a pair of shoes out? She lays in bed at night and can’t sleep because she wants nothing more than to move the shoes where they’re supposed to be.
She even considers moving them and getting up early before everyone else and moving them back?
Hi, hello, it’s me…I’m Monica.
I like to have everything figured out, planned out, and color coded. Some may say that I’m being a “control freak” but it honestly makes my soul so happy.
I’ll happily wear a “hello my name is control freak” name tag.
I came in real hot for the start of this year. I had wanted to do all of the things. Seriously.
There were so many things that I wanted to do and it was so overwhelming.
I even changed my word for the year because it was stressing me out. I had to admit that I was wrong and take a step back. I was forced to take just a few things to work on this year that were the most important to me.
You see..it’s okay to want to do so many things..but that stuff gets to me. My favorite quote is “you can do anything but not everything” and it hits home for me so hard.
I find myself getting caught up in this idea that I need to do A, B, and C…and D, E, F, and G for good measure. If I don’t do everything that I’ve set out to do, I am a failure.
It was January 1st and I was already stressed out from all of my goals this year.
I talked to my husband and told him I was overwhelmed, that I could already see myself just hating all of these things that I wanted to do so bad. He asked me what I wanted to do the most and to focus on those things.
So that’s what I decided to do.
I changed my word, made a new vision board, wrote out a new workout routine and set out to have the best year ever.
The first full week of 2020 was amazing. I had prepped these amazing lunches for work with the help of my dad and his amazing cooking skills, I was crushing my workouts, and I was going to bed after reading a chapter of a book. All things that made my heart happy.
I had even started to write down what I was thankful every morning. I purchased a journal and every morning as I drank my pre-workout I would write down what I was grateful for and my intention for the day.
I was seriously killing it.
Until Sunday January 12th happened.
I woke up with a sore throat and it progressed as the day came to a close. Monday morning rolled around and I had to call out sick for work, and for Tuesday as well. I tried to go in on Wednesday but only made it half of the day. I couldn’t even go in on Thursday. Friday finally came around and I was able to drag myself out of bed and go to work.
I was so frustrated.
I had let myself down.
The week before went so well! I was positive, motivated, and ready to crush anything that came my way.
So why was everything completely turned upside down the very next week?
I have only done a handful of workouts since getting sick, I haven’t read my book all but a few times, and I haven’t written in my gratitude journal since the day I got sick.
Why am I giving up?
Why do I have to force myself out of bed when just a couple of weeks ago I hopped out of bed ready for the day?
I have been feeling so off since I got sick, and I am at the point where I realize it and I’m not happy with it. I’m ready to be the version of me that started out the new year strong.
Whenever I’m feeling off I read some of my best friends old blog posts. I can’t explain why, but they make me remember why I started writing. They remind me that I use to just write to write. That I wasn’t trying to make a post that people would “want” to read. That I wasn’t trying to come up with fluff pieces because that’s what everyone else was doing. That I love writing because it’s my outlet, it brings me happiness. I want my blog to get back to that. To be my happy place.
I took this from my best friends blog today and I’m going to use it as motivation for the rest of the week.
This morning, I could have hit snooze. I could have rolled back over, spent my morning off cozy in bed without the worry of an alarm. This morning I chose love. I chose to get my butt out of bed, hit the yoga studio, then hit the trail for some miles before the sun came up. This morning, like many others I chose to start my day off with something I love. And I am happier because of it.
It’s crazy how something she wrote on February 15th 2017 can be so incredibly relevant to me now almost three years later.
So here I am saying I’m going to snap out of this funk and get back to being me. The me that I love and the me that gets stuff done.
As far as my blog goes? Expect more posts like this. More posts talking about things that I love, things that are hard, and me trying new things. I turn 30 this year, and I won’t do it quietly.